Secrets to quitting your job successfully - Copeland Coaching

Secrets to quitting your job successfully Theres probably been once or twice when youve thought of saying, I quit! and walking out of work. Or, better yet just not going back again tomorrow. Wouldnt it be nice if you could forget about your current job and just start over? Unfortunately, its just not that easy. As much as you may hate to admit it, your current job will influence your next job and your job after that. Leaving a workplace is an art form. In some cases, it may be fairly easy. But, in others, it can be very tricky. Youll find that some of your coworkers treat your departure much like a breakup. There may be drama, and its possible there are people youre close with now who youll never see again. Keep it quiet At times, looking for a job can feel like no big deal. You may think, Everyones looking, right? What is there to hide? But, think again. Telling your work buddy or cube-mate about your plans could get you into hot water. In many states, your employer can fire you for no reason. If your boss believes youve become disloyal to the company (because youre searching for a new job), dont expect to stay around for long. In fact, you could be fired the same day. Losing your job unexpectedly not only creates bad blood between you and your company it takes away your power. Tell your boss in person When you have a new job offer, tell your boss about your new plans. But, wait until its in writing and signed. Keep in mind that this change could come as a surprise to your boss. Take the time to tell them first, and do it in person. Dont let them hear rumors from other departments and definitely dont send an e-mail. Even if you dont care for your boss, tell them in person. Dont give too much notice This may sound counter-intuitive, but I dont recommend giving an overly long period of notice. If you look closely, youll find that many top executives only give the required two weeks notice when they shift to a new company. Generally speaking, transitioning your work to someone new takes two to three weeks. Beyond that, youll find you will continue to work your normal job up to the two or three week mark. For example, if you give two months, chances are good that the transition wont actually happen until the end. But, in that long period of notice, people will begin behaving differently. Knowing youre leaving soon, they may act out toward you or try to take out their frustrations on you. Its not a guaranteed outcome, but its definitely a possibility when you give more notice than whats needed. Do a great job every single day Your reputation is the most important thing you have career wise. The last few weeks of your employment with a company is not the time to slack off. Dont leave your coworkers and old boss left to wonder if they really knew you or your work. Force yourself to show up on time, stay all day, and do your best work ever. Work hard to transition your projects to someone new. Your efforts will not go unnoticed. Keep your negative thoughts to yourself Often (or lets be honest almost always), you leave a job because youre not happy. If you were, youd stay there. Makes sense, right? So, by the time youve found a new job, you may be ready to really tell it like it is. On top of that, once your coworkers know youre leaving, a crazy thing starts to happen. Everyone starts to show up in your office. They want to know your gossip. They want to tell you their gossip. They want your help leaving their job. They want to tell you how unhappy they are. Its amazing how much dirt you can learn in just the last few weeks with the company. But, be careful. Spreading rumors or talking trash about your employer is never helpful. Think twice about exit interviews Yep, you read that right. Exit interviews are often provided by Human Resources as an optional way to leave feedback about your experience. Its presented as a positive thing, and many employees love participating. It gives them a chance to feel heard. But, beware of the potential trap. If youre leaving because you dislike your boss, this is not the time to air your dirty laundry. First of all, your company probably already knows about your boss and hey, the boss still works there. What good will your negative comments really do in the long run? What they may do however is burn a bridge between you and a former boss. Dont burn bridges Even if you got your new job without the help of your current company, you will need them again at some point. Even if someone isnt your favorite, keep the door open for future possibilities. Do your best not to write people off on your way out. And, realize that they may also be really unhappy at their jobs. Leaving the door open creates future opportunities you never even thought of. I hope these tips have helped you. Visit CopelandCoaching.com to find more tips to improve your job search. If I can be of assistance to you, dont hesitate to reach out to me here. Also, be sure to subscribe to my Copeland Coaching Podcast on Apple Podcasts and Stitcher where I discuss career advice every Tuesday! If youve already heard the podcast and enjoy it, please consider leaving a review in Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. Happy hunting! Angela Copeland @CopelandCoach